Episode 45
The Truth About Purpose
Purpose isn’t something you’re meant to figure out.
It’s not a job title, it's not a five-year plan and it’s definitely not something you can control from your mind.
In this episode, Kate shares the truth about purpose - what it actually is, why so many women feel disconnected from it and how we’ve been conditioned to search for it in all the wrong places.
You will learn....
- Why chasing purpose often leaves us feeling more lost, not more fulfilled
- The subtle ways we abandon ourselves in the name of “success” or doing what we should do
- How purpose is revealed through truth, aliveness, and self-trust -not pressure or control
- What it really means to live on purpose in this chapter of your life
If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be more than this”, you’ve built a life that looks good but doesn’t quite feel right, if you know there’s something deeply meaningful for you to experience in this lifetime.
This episode is to stop tolerating a job you hate - and an invitation to dive a little deeper into yourself and the magic of your own soul.
Your purpose isn’t out there - it's already alive inside of you.
About the Host:
Kate Harlow is the founder of The Unscriptd Woman, the creator of The Expanded Love Coaching Method, and host of The New Truth podcast - ranked in the top 1.5% globally. With over 15 years of experience teaching, coaching and facilitating transformational retreats worldwide, Kate has helped hundreds of thousands of women break free from outdated relational patterns, old patriarchal ways of thinking and unspoken rules to live by.
Her infallible methods guide women to release the deeply ingrained scripts that keep them stuck- empowering women to step into their highest, most magnetic, and fully expressed selves. Through her coaching, retreats, podcast and upcoming book The Unscriptd Woman, Kate is redefining what it means to be an empowered woman in today's world, showing women how to stop waiting for permission and start creating a life and love that aligns with their deepest truth.
Known for her rare ability to see exactly where women are out of alignment with themselves, Kate offers a path back to unwavering self- trust, meaningful joy and true fulfillment. Her work is a revolution - one that liberates women from societal expectations and invites them into a life of radical authenticity, thriving relationships and unshakable self-worth.
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Transcript
My purpose is to continue to peel off those fear
Kate Harlow:based masks and those layers of who I'm not, and to keep being
Kate Harlow:who I am in the world, and to keep magnetizing women to me,
Kate Harlow:who I can help remind them of who they are. Your purpose is so
Kate Harlow:it's not going to look the same as mine, by any means. But what
Kate Harlow:sparks your heart. The more you live in alignment with who you
Kate Harlow:really are, the more the universe, divine matrix life,
Kate Harlow:can lead you where you're meant to go. So discover your magic.
Kate Harlow:Number one. Number two, follow your inner nudges. Say yes, even
Kate Harlow:when it's frickin scary, know that that's exactly the
Kate Harlow:direction you need to go in. And number three is trust that you
Kate Harlow:are being guided.
Kate Harlow:Hello, beautiful. Happy New Year. 2026 Oh, my goodness. Do
Kate Harlow:you remember being a kid and being like, what will the world
Kate Harlow:look like in 2026 I bet you didn't guess it would look how
Kate Harlow:it looks. I think that, I mean, I maybe imagine the Jetsons,
Kate Harlow:like cars would be flying themselves by now, they're
Kate Harlow:certainly driving themselves, aren't they, so I'm sure cars
Kate Harlow:will be flying in no time. That's an interesting thought.
Kate Harlow:So I hope that you are having a beautiful start to the new year.
Kate Harlow:I hope you got some rest over the holidays that you took
Kate Harlow:amazing, exquisite care of yourself and that you brought
Kate Harlow:your heroine to all the parties and all the events and
Kate Harlow:everything that you went to and touched and experienced. So
Kate Harlow:let's have 2026 your year of magic, the year of your heroine,
Kate Harlow:of becoming fully becoming the heroine of your life. What does
Kate Harlow:that mean? That means you being the leading lady, not the extra,
Kate Harlow:right? The leading lady of your story being the co author, the
Kate Harlow:CO writer, the CO creator, with the universe. Because, of
Kate Harlow:course, you are always being guided. You are always being
Kate Harlow:supported. And if you are afraid that you are not if you are
Kate Harlow:afraid that you are going to fail, if you are afraid that
Kate Harlow:you're never going to make anything of yourself, that
Kate Harlow:you're going to be stuck in this job. You hate forever. You are
Kate Harlow:disconnected from the truth of who you are, which is divine,
Kate Harlow:because the reality is we are all plugged into the same divine
Kate Harlow:matrix. And I am using that word very intentionally. There was a
Kate Harlow:movie, movie produced, I don't know when the matrix came out,
Kate Harlow:maybe early, 2000s
Kate Harlow:and people in spiritual, spiritual places use the the
Kate Harlow:metaphor of the matrix A lot, as the thing that is disconnecting
Kate Harlow:us from the truth of who we are and from our source. But the
Kate Harlow:reality is the matrix. In Latin, means the womb. It means the
Kate Harlow:feminine. It means Mother Earth. So the divine, the matrix is
Kate Harlow:actually what's divine, and it is the system that we're all
Kate Harlow:plugged into when, when you experience synchronicity in your
Kate Harlow:life, when you experience magic in your life, when you have a
Kate Harlow:thought about someone and then you see them or that thing comes
Kate Harlow:true. It is the matrix is the unseen quantum field that is
Kate Harlow:everywhere that birds are connected to, that the bees are
Kate Harlow:connected to that, the trees are connected to that the animals
Kate Harlow:are connected to. There is this quantum field of energy that we
Kate Harlow:can't see that is orchestrating everything that's happening in
Kate Harlow:our lives. That's the divine matrix. And yet, Hollywood made
Kate Harlow:us think that the matrix is the thing that's dumbing us down and
Kate Harlow:disconnecting us from our truth. This happens a lot in Hollywood.
Kate Harlow:They flip things so that we then get confused about what truth
Kate Harlow:is. So I certainly believe there are a lot of systems that have
Kate Harlow:been set up to disconnect us from our magic, to disconnect us
Kate Harlow:from our power. However, we're not going to go down the
Kate Harlow:conspiracy theory route today, but even the school system
Kate Harlow:right? It's the punishment system. It's a system that
Kate Harlow:teaches us about good and bad and right and wrong, and it
Kate Harlow:disconnects us from our hearts. It disconnects us from our
Kate Harlow:individuality, from our souls, from the essence of who we are.
Kate Harlow:So today, I'm excited to talk about purpose with you, because
Kate Harlow:this part that I'm talking about right now is everything when it
Kate Harlow:comes to purpose, your purpose. And this episode has been a long
Kate Harlow:time coming. There's been so many requests, and it's
Kate Harlow:sandwiched in between two episodes that are so related
Kate Harlow:that if you have not heard the New Year's episode with Farhad
Kate Harlow:100% you need to go back and listen to that episode. It is so
Kate Harlow:amazing. It's, I mean, we had so much fun recording it. It's like
Kate Harlow:90 minutes long of pure magic. He shares the most incredible
Kate Harlow:stories. And this man has been one of my best friends since I
Kate Harlow:was 19 years old. He's like a soul mate, and he has everything
Kate Harlow:he touches turns to gold. He's created so much magic in his
Kate Harlow:life, he couldn't be more on purpose. And His purpose is
Kate Harlow:never ending. Like often people think of purpose like a like a
Kate Harlow:career path. It's like you just arrive one day and you're the
Kate Harlow:CEO of a Fortune 500 company. Your purpose is not a career
Kate Harlow:path. Your purpose is something that's alive and living and
Kate Harlow:breathing. Breathing. And as you evolve as a soul, your purpose
Kate Harlow:will evolve alongside you. And so and so many women have been
Kate Harlow:asking for an episode on purpose. I'm really excited to
Kate Harlow:dive in. So this one is sandwiched between your year of
Kate Harlow:magic with Farhad, and that one is so purpose related. That
Kate Harlow:whole episode, and it's a next the next episode is about living
Kate Harlow:your dreams with an amazing woman who I'm really, really
Kate Harlow:excited to share you with next week that comes out next week.
Kate Harlow:So right in the middle, I decided to put the truth about
Kate Harlow:purpose so that we can really get you on purpose. I know that
Kate Harlow:this is something that so many women are starving for right
Kate Harlow:now, so many women I'm working with, and that my friends are
Kate Harlow:working with and that I keep hearing and meeting, are at a
Kate Harlow:crossroads, are really at that that place in their lives. Are
Kate Harlow:like, Okay, I'm no longer willing to do this thing that
Kate Harlow:sucks the life out of me. I'm no longer willing to go to this job
Kate Harlow:where someone else tells me what's wrong with me and how I
Kate Harlow:need to be better and how who, who I need to be, and how I need
Kate Harlow:to show up and how much time I need to work every day, there's
Kate Harlow:this deep call, and I think it's part of the age of Aquarian I
Kate Harlow:talk about that a lot, and I'm not an astrologer, but I just
Kate Harlow:like see so much change happening right now. How do you
Kate Harlow:deny it? You can't deny it. Old systems are no longer working,
Kate Harlow:and people are being called to be more entrepreneurial in the
Kate Harlow:modern world, more innovative, more creative. So this is
Kate Harlow:happening so organically right now, and the call to to rise
Kate Harlow:into something greater and to connect with something more
Kate Harlow:meaningful is inside of every woman I talk to right now, if
Kate Harlow:they're not already on the path of doing something meaningful,
Kate Harlow:and even for someone like me, I'm already many years down the
Kate Harlow:path of doing my aligned purpose, and it keeps evolving.
Kate Harlow:I have, you know, I'm working on the book, which I'm feeling
Kate Harlow:really excited about. I'm, I'm at olapenge farm right now as I
Kate Harlow:record this, and the book is starting to take shape. I'm, I'm
Kate Harlow:working with a book writing coach coming up in the new year.
Kate Harlow:You might meet her next week. And I am so inspired right now
Kate Harlow:to get the book out there into as many hands as of as many
Kate Harlow:women on planet Earth, learning how to be unscripted and how to
Kate Harlow:live a life aligned with their souls. So that's something new
Kate Harlow:that I'm working on. And then I have all these extraordinarily
Kate Harlow:massive projects that keep dropping into my field of new
Kate Harlow:possibilities of taking this work out in even more creative
Kate Harlow:and fun and innovative ways, and getting as impacting as many
Kate Harlow:women on planet Earth with the unscripted message of you get to
Kate Harlow:go your own way. You get to follow your own heart, and you
Kate Harlow:get to live a life that feels good. So this message is so
Kate Harlow:important. Anyways, that's my purpose. But I feel the change
Kate Harlow:with everyone, even people I know that are on purpose.
Kate Harlow:There's so much more coming and so much more that we're here to
Kate Harlow:do and create. And I really feel like human beings when we're
Kate Harlow:connected to our creativity and our inspiration and that divine
Kate Harlow:channel we all have access to when we are connected to this
Kate Harlow:part of ourselves, we are so much more joyful. We walk
Kate Harlow:through the world so much more grounded and aligned and in our
Kate Harlow:power. And, you know, looking for not looking for approval
Kate Harlow:like your purpose is so connected. You know, I kind of
Kate Harlow:want to change the narrative. I'm just realizing this as I'm
Kate Harlow:saying it out loud. It's like I used to be in fantasy for, you
Kate Harlow:know, my whole life, till I was 30, that some guy was the thing,
Kate Harlow:right? And I was gonna this grandiose love was the thing.
Kate Harlow:And there's gonna be some arrival point, and I was gonna
Kate Harlow:just go arrive one day and this, meet this guy, and I would feel
Kate Harlow:amazing forever, and I would feel worthy and lovable and good
Kate Harlow:enough. And of course, that's the biggest setup, because what
Kate Harlow:part of you is choosing love is the part that doesn't feel
Kate Harlow:worthy, lovable and good enough, and then it's a lifelong roller
Kate Harlow:coaster ride of trying to get love from someone outside of
Kate Harlow:yourself. But when we become the love, when we deepen into the
Kate Harlow:love when we reconnect with the truth of who we are. That's when
Kate Harlow:our purpose becomes like. That's when we get to express our
Kate Harlow:purpose in the world, whatever that might be. And you know,
Kate Harlow:when you're fully living on purpose in every sense of the
Kate Harlow:word, you don't like, I don't feel the need to have a partner
Kate Harlow:right now, I'm I'm not closed to a partner coming when the time
Kate Harlow:is right, but I don't need one because I'm so satiated in my
Kate Harlow:life and my purpose is so deep and so prevalent. And it's not
Kate Harlow:like, it's not the same as being a workaholic, right? You know,
Kate Harlow:like, that's the old paradigm is, like, obsessed with like not
Kate Harlow:most people that are workaholics aren't even obsessed with their
Kate Harlow:jobs. They don't even like it necessarily. They're just over
Kate Harlow:functioning trying to prove something. You know, it's it's
Kate Harlow:coming from that wounded place that not good enough, not
Kate Harlow:lovable, not worthy, not smart enough. So they're over
Kate Harlow:functioning to try and prove something. And May. Or they're
Kate Harlow:over functioning to avoid feeling whatever they're feeling
Kate Harlow:underneath, and it stops them, or it keeps them in this life
Kate Harlow:that is, you know, busy and maybe looks important on paper,
Kate Harlow:but they're usually quite disconnected from themselves in
Kate Harlow:it. So that's not what I'm talking about. Purpose is being
Kate Harlow:connected to your magic. And personally, you know, I know
Kate Harlow:this is up. This is definitely up for debate, because I've
Kate Harlow:heard other teachers in this in this space, disagree with this
Kate Harlow:point that I'm about to make, but I personally believe that we
Kate Harlow:all have a deeper purpose, and that it can be connected to how
Kate Harlow:you earn, how you I want to find a better word how you create and
Kate Harlow:attract abundance in your life. I believe we all have
Kate Harlow:magic to be shared that can be connected to your career and
Kate Harlow:what you're here to do in the world. And the reason I believe
Kate Harlow:that is because I just think that most people are so far away
Kate Harlow:from their their own magic, their own essence, their natural
Kate Harlow:gifts. Most people are very far away from that because we were
Kate Harlow:programmed to be right in those systems that I talked about in
Kate Harlow:the beginning. This is not a conspiracy. We were programmed
Kate Harlow:as children to like the school system doesn't sit you down and
Kate Harlow:say like, oh, who are you, and what are your gifts? And what
Kate Harlow:are we? What do we? What can we cultivate for you? What are you
Kate Harlow:really naturally gifted at? What does your Soul love? Can you
Kate Harlow:imagine if that's what the school system did? No, it
Kate Harlow:doesn't do that. What does it do? It sits us down and says,
Kate Harlow:Okay, this is what you need to learn. This is who you need to
Kate Harlow:be. Most people leave the school system feeling stupid. I left
Kate Harlow:the school system feeling like absolutely the dumbest person on
Kate Harlow:planet Earth. I did relatively well, like B, like B's. I got
Kate Harlow:mostly in school, occasionally C is usually in math, but B's. So
Kate Harlow:I managed to get by with tutors, with help, but it was so fucking
Kate Harlow:hard for me, and I left school feeling like an idiot. And it
Kate Harlow:actually wasn't until I met my mentor, who I've talked a lot
Kate Harlow:about in different episodes. I mean, this woman totally changed
Kate Harlow:my life. And when I met her, she I went to a few of her events.
Kate Harlow:This is who I was a business coach for, and I first attended
Kate Harlow:a few of her events and got to know her audience and connected
Kate Harlow:with her. I volunteered and like, got to know the the vibe
Kate Harlow:of it, and I fell in love with this company and these very
Kate Harlow:personal development based business seminars. They were all
Kate Harlow:about marketing and sales and stage presence, but they were so
Kate Harlow:deep and meaningful. And I fell in love with her, and I fell in
Kate Harlow:love with all of her clients, and she one day on stage, it was
Kate Harlow:the most meaningful moment to me. Like that moment completely
Kate Harlow:changed my life. She said, from stage, she was teaching about
Kate Harlow:multiple intelligences, because she was teaching curriculum
Kate Harlow:design, and she was teaching our audience, who were business
Kate Harlow:owners that led retreats, seminars and workshops. She was
Kate Harlow:teaching them how to actually design program curriculum that
Kate Harlow:really changes lives, because most people that teach retreats
Kate Harlow:and seminars and and talks and workshops don't actually know
Kate Harlow:how to teach. So this was one of her geniuses. So she was
Kate Harlow:teaching, teaching basically, and I was at the back of the
Kate Harlow:room as her head coach, and I was coaching all of her clients.
Kate Harlow:And she said, she said, How many of you have met Kate this
Kate Harlow:weekend? And at the time, like my loves, if you could only see
Kate Harlow:me, this was okay, 1515, years ago, at least, probably 18 years
Kate Harlow:ago, maybe not that long, 15 years ago. This was about 15
Kate Harlow:years ago. She said, How many of you have met Kate this weekend?
Kate Harlow:It was like a marketing workshop, and every single
Kate Harlow:person in the room put up their hand. I think there was maybe 50
Kate Harlow:people in the room. And she said, how many like, what? What
Kate Harlow:words would you describe her? And people were like, warm,
Kate Harlow:connected, loving, present, whatever they would say, really
Kate Harlow:nice things. And she said, Kate left the school system feeling
Kate Harlow:stupid and and yet, the first time I met this woman, I My
Kate Harlow:first thought was this, she isn't this woman is an
Kate Harlow:interpersonal genius. She said, I've never met someone who is so
Kate Harlow:good at connecting with people in my life and instantly
Kate Harlow:connecting in a really meaningful, deep way and staying
Kate Harlow:connected. And she said this, and I'm sobbing at the back of
Kate Harlow:the room. Honestly, my friends, until that moment, I felt
Kate Harlow:stupid. I thought I wasn't good at anything. I had studied
Kate Harlow:coaching. I had studied counseling. I had immersed
Kate Harlow:myself in holistic wellness and healing, and I trained in all
Kate Harlow:these different methodologies, because I was already on the
Kate Harlow:beginning of my path. At this point, I was a few years into my
Kate Harlow:path when I met Callan, and I was so insecure still, even
Kate Harlow:though I was studying coaching, like I was divinely led to study
Kate Harlow:coaching, even that part of my purpose I literally had never
Kate Harlow:heard of a coach in my life, other than a basketball coach
Kate Harlow:and a soccer coach. And the moment that I heard about
Kate Harlow:coaching was like a dinner party with it was like a office dinner
Kate Harlow:party, and the owner was in town, and he was like, blah,
Kate Harlow:blah, blah, my life coach. And I was like, what? What's a life
Kate Harlow:coach? And something lit up inside me, and I went home that
Kate Harlow:night and I searched life coaching. I called my parents,
Kate Harlow:and I was like, I think I want to be a life coach. This is when
Kate Harlow:I was 25 years old, and this was the beginning of my journey, and
Kate Harlow:in that decision to become a life coach, even after two years
Kate Harlow:of life coaching school, that was so or it was a year and a
Kate Harlow:half, it was so intense. It was like full time self help school,
Kate Harlow:and it was so deep. And we were working everything. We were
Kate Harlow:learning. We were working on our we were learning on ourselves.
Kate Harlow:We were going through our family system, studying our childhood,
Kate Harlow:studying our traumas, studying everything, and really like it
Kate Harlow:was ripping our hearts open and putting them back together. That
Kate Harlow:was the training that I did. It was so experiential, incredibly
Kate Harlow:profound and really, really deep. And I left that program
Kate Harlow:still so insecure, like still feeling stupid, still
Kate Harlow:questioning whether or not I should be a coach. I remember a
Kate Harlow:moment where I, my friend gave me a psychic reading for my
Kate Harlow:birthday, and I at the time, I called my parents and I was
Kate Harlow:like, okay, it'd been, like, couple years since I took
Kate Harlow:coaching school, tried to start my own business. Was too
Kate Harlow:insecure. Called my parents and was like, I think I'm going to
Kate Harlow:be a wine wrap. I think I'd be really good at it. I'm really
Kate Harlow:good at selling and I love wine. At the time, I was like, and my
Kate Harlow:parents were like, what? Like, they were devastated, because
Kate Harlow:they were so happy that I'd finally found my thing. And
Kate Harlow:everyone that everyone in my life knew the coaching path was
Kate Harlow:my path. Even though coaching was such a new thing, they all
Kate Harlow:could see that this was where I was meant to go, and this is
Kate Harlow:back way before Instagram and Facebook. Like coaching wasn't a
Kate Harlow:thing when I studied coaching so but I was still so insecure, and
Kate Harlow:thankfully, the psychic said you're at a crossroads. She
Kate Harlow:didn't ask me any questions. She said, you're at a crossroads.
Kate Harlow:You're going back to school, and you are not meant to you. She
Kate Harlow:said you were meant to be a healer and a helper of humanity.
Kate Harlow:And so I was like, okay, great, that's so I went back and did
Kate Harlow:more, more studies in the coaching, counseling, healing
Kate Harlow:realm, rather than going down the wine rep path. But it was,
Kate Harlow:you see how every single thing was divided. And then the next
Kate Harlow:program, I signed up for this counselors training program at
Kate Harlow:this beautiful program. It was called the Clear Mind Institute.
Kate Harlow:I met so many amazing, lifelong friends there. And really, the
Kate Harlow:program was deeply life changing. And I'd already done a
Kate Harlow:year and a half program, and this was another one. And I was
Kate Harlow:like, Okay, maybe I'm I'm still insecure. Maybe I just need to
Kate Harlow:go back to school and do more. So I did, and I'm so glad I did,
Kate Harlow:because it was my divine path. That's where I met Callen, who
Kate Harlow:ended up being my mentor for the next 10 years, and she saw me so
Kate Harlow:deeply. So she's the one who said, you're an interpersonal
Kate Harlow:genius, and I've never met someone who's connected with
Kate Harlow:people as deep as you so then she kept inviting me to be her
Kate Harlow:coach, to be her head trainer, to grow with her, and she
Kate Harlow:mentored me and lit I mean, gosh, that woman will always
Kate Harlow:hold the specialist place in my heart, because I would not be
Kate Harlow:who I am today without her. Now, I didn't plan to share any of
Kate Harlow:these stories. It's just coming through right now, but what I'm
Kate Harlow:realizing as I'm sharing them, is that the thing you need to
Kate Harlow:the most important thing you need to know about purpose, is
Kate Harlow:that it is guided. It comes from life, guiding you. The universe,
Kate Harlow:God, the divine, the divine matrix, whatever you want to
Kate Harlow:call it, is guiding you on the path that is designed for you.
Kate Harlow:You do not have to find purpose now, before I discovered
Kate Harlow:coaching, before that dropped in my lap and that divine moment
Kate Harlow:where my body responded so strongly to this man saying my
Kate Harlow:life coach, life coaching wasn't known. So that's why I didn't
Kate Harlow:know what it was when I first heard the term, but my body knew
Kate Harlow:it. My soul knew it. My soul responded in that moment to that
Kate Harlow:statement, but before that time, because I felt stupid, and maybe
Kate Harlow:on a deeper level, because I knew I had a big life purpose,
Kate Harlow:on a soul level, not a mind level, but on some deep level,
Kate Harlow:perhaps I knew that there was a big purpose that was coming. I
Kate Harlow:was on the hunt for my career path and my so called purpose.
Kate Harlow:Maybe I didn't call it that. I don't think I called it purpose
Kate Harlow:back then, because I didn't. I wasn't really familiar with the
Kate Harlow:term, but I was looking for my thing. I remember everyone I
Kate Harlow:went to school with was really good at something, and it felt
Kate Harlow:like everyone knew their path, and I didn't know my path, and I
Kate Harlow:was always searching. I studied youth in film. I consider being
Kate Harlow:a film. I did. I remember going on, what was that show? It was
Kate Harlow:like not Star Trek. Was like Star Trek, though it was filmed
Kate Harlow:in Vancouver, and. I went on set for three days and, like,
Kate Harlow:shadowed the special effects makeup artists and shadowed,
Kate Harlow:maybe it was Star Trek petite, a new version, I don't know
Kate Harlow:something anyways, I thought it was gonna get in the film
Kate Harlow:industry. My friend's brother was like, Oh my gosh, you would
Kate Harlow:be amazing at public relations. You got to get into PR. And I
Kate Harlow:was like, What's PR? And I looked it up, and I took a
Kate Harlow:course. I like studied it at night school for, like, I don't
Kate Harlow:know, two years PR and marketing and all these things that that
Kate Harlow:just because someone else told me I'd be good at it, I was
Kate Harlow:constantly looking for the thing and constantly meeting up
Kate Harlow:against walls, constantly bumping up against, like, just
Kate Harlow:nothing, nothing unfolded and and I
Kate Harlow:just want to speak to the fact that I'm a projector. So for
Kate Harlow:those manifestors out there, typically manifestors go their
Kate Harlow:own way, and they innovate and they create, but projectors and
Kate Harlow:generators and manifesting generators, I'm speaking of
Kate Harlow:human design right now, and I will have a human design
Kate Harlow:practitioner on very soon, but we need guidance. And so I would
Kate Harlow:say for the most part, regardless of your type, the
Kate Harlow:universe is guiding you, and there is a path that is meant
Kate Harlow:for you. So here's your job. If it's guided and it can't be
Kate Harlow:found, you might be asking, Well, Kate, why is it? Why
Kate Harlow:haven't I been guided yet, if you are living in your saboteur
Kate Harlow:okay, if you are living in your survival patterns, if you're
Kate Harlow:following your if you're saying yes to what's a NO and NO to
Kate Harlow:what's a yes, if you're relying to yourself deep down, if you
Kate Harlow:are sacrificing and over functioning and staying in a job
Kate Harlow:you hate just because you think there's no other option, staying
Kate Harlow:in a relationship that's out of alignment, Just because you're
Kate Harlow:afraid. You know, if you are still trapped by the helm of
Kate Harlow:your saboteur, then you my love will not uncover your purpose.
Kate Harlow:The reason my purpose kept unfolding is I because I started
Kate Harlow:to listen. I left a I was going to say 30 year relationship. No,
Kate Harlow:wasn't 30 years I was 30 years old. I left a five year
Kate Harlow:relationship that was so perfect on paper at a time in my life
Kate Harlow:where everybody I was friends with was getting married and
Kate Harlow:having kids, and I had the courage to leave that
Kate Harlow:relationship because there was a feeling so strongly inside of me
Kate Harlow:that there was more for me that I needed to experience. And then
Kate Harlow:I needed to experience it on my own. I needed to be a woman in
Kate Harlow:the world on my own, not forever just, but like for an indefinite
Kate Harlow:period of time. And then I spent three years devoting myself to
Kate Harlow:getting to know my own soul, my own heart, and as I shifted
Kate Harlow:gears, so obviously every new truth episode is supportive of
Kate Harlow:you living this way. But as I shifted gears, and I stopped
Kate Harlow:doing what everyone else thought I should do, and I stopped
Kate Harlow:saying yes to everything that actually didn't feel good in my
Kate Harlow:body, and I started saying no to those things and yes to the
Kate Harlow:things that lit me up like a Christmas tree or expanded my
Kate Harlow:heart, or were so clear that this was something I was meant
Kate Harlow:to do, even though it felt scary when I had the courage and I
Kate Harlow:made choices like that over and over and over again, that was me
Kate Harlow:getting into alignment with my heart and the truth of who I Am,
Kate Harlow:and from that place, the magic started to unfold. That's when I
Kate Harlow:could actually hear and see the guides from the universe. Right
Kate Harlow:prior to that, I couldn't see them. I was missing the signals
Kate Harlow:because I was so far away from the truth of who I am. I
Kate Harlow:remember having astrology readings back in the day. And I
Kate Harlow:was like,
Kate Harlow:none of these things they're saying are true. Like this woman
Kate Harlow:said, You're not going to be able to work for someone else
Kate Harlow:for very long. You are. You are absolutely meant to have your
Kate Harlow:own thing, and you are going to make a huge impact, and your
Kate Harlow:purpose is to be who you are. And I'm like, wow, at the time,
Kate Harlow:it made no sense, but now it's like, literally, my life is
Kate Harlow:being who I am and showing other women how to be who they are,
Kate Harlow:and fully aligning with truth and not buying into any of the
Kate Harlow:bullshit that I'm living my life wrong or I'm doing things wrong.
Kate Harlow:I certainly felt that way in the beginning, when I left that five
Kate Harlow:year relationship with Charlie, my beloved at the time, who was,
Kate Harlow:he's the greatest guy. He's such a love, and he's such a pure
Kate Harlow:heart, amazing human being. We had a nice relationship, we had
Kate Harlow:a sweet relationship, but I had the call so deep that I needed
Kate Harlow:to live. I remember even just like, this craving to have my
Kate Harlow:own space, my own home, my own place that was just mine, and to
Kate Harlow:like it was almost like dating myself. I certainly didn't call
Kate Harlow:it that at the time, but like, I had this desire to date myself,
Kate Harlow:to get to know what was in there, and I listened to it,
Kate Harlow:and. Even though everyone in my life told me not to leave
Kate Harlow:Charlie, everyone in my life was like, You're fucking crazy.
Kate Harlow:People said the same thing when I changed my name, like, what
Kate Harlow:are you doing? That's weird. When I talked about that on the
Kate Harlow:last episode, when I left Charlie, people were like, Oh my
Kate Harlow:God, you're never going to find a man as good as this who loves
Kate Harlow:you as much as he does, he's literally perfect. Why would you
Kate Harlow:leave? And everyone else is getting married and, quote,
Kate Harlow:unquote, settling down. But there was a call in my body, in
Kate Harlow:my heart and my soul, that I could not ignore, and thank God
Kate Harlow:I didn't ignore it. We wouldn't even be here, right? So that was
Kate Harlow:such a huge part of my purpose journey, because I had the
Kate Harlow:courage to follow my heart. And every time you have the courage
Kate Harlow:to follow your heart, and remember, there will always be a
Kate Harlow:million fearful stories as to why you shouldn't. And that's
Kate Harlow:your saboteur. You got to get to know your saboteur, and you got
Kate Harlow:to get to know her as your roommate, not as the one in
Kate Harlow:charge. She she needs to be in the backseat with your little
Kate Harlow:Wounded Child, and you and your heroine driving the car, because
Kate Harlow:your Saboteurs job is to keep you small, because she believes,
Kate Harlow:on some level that that is safe, because when you were little,
Kate Harlow:being big and wild and bold and express was not safe, right? So
Kate Harlow:she is working on overtime trying to keep you safe. She has
Kate Harlow:to be in the backseat if you are not inside of the reclamation,
Kate Harlow:and this is something you need support with. Join us in the
Kate Harlow:reclamation. It's a place where you can step into and reclaim
Kate Harlow:your purpose with an amazing group of heroines who have
Kate Harlow:already done it and are doing it and are so devoted to themselves
Kate Harlow:and so devoted to going their own way and living their life
Kate Harlow:differently, from the heart, from the soul. So join me. I'll
Kate Harlow:link it below this episode. I've been talking about a lot in last
Kate Harlow:month. We just started the beginning of January, and it
Kate Harlow:runs till the end of March, and then you have the online modules
Kate Harlow:for life. But that, I mean the reclamation is an amazing place
Kate Harlow:to reclaim all of those parts of your shutdown, but that's the
Kate Harlow:first step. Is you must discover your own magic, and you cannot
Kate Harlow:discover your own magic. If you are going against your inner
Kate Harlow:compass, if you are ignoring those calls that are coming from
Kate Harlow:deep within your heart and soul, if you are letting fear make
Kate Harlow:your decision instead of following your truth, you will
Kate Harlow:not discover your magic, right? So many women are like, Oh, I'm
Kate Harlow:just not good at anything. I don't have gifts. And like, Oh,
Kate Harlow:I'm like, I'm just here to work really hard. You have the most
Kate Harlow:extraordinary gifts you could ever imagine. And here's the
Kate Harlow:thing, when you are living from your magic, it's not, it's not
Kate Harlow:this fantasy. I think a lot of people are like, I just want to
Kate Harlow:spring out of bed every morning and be so passionate about what
Kate Harlow:I do. It's like, I don't feel that way that it that's a
Kate Harlow:fantasy, actually. And I think it's good to talk about it how
Kate Harlow:it feels. And this is when you're in your heroine, period,
Kate Harlow:but especially connected to purpose and love, same thing. It
Kate Harlow:feels neutral. Actually. It's quite grounded. It's just like,
Kate Harlow:maybe not neutral, isn't the word, but it's like, grounded.
Kate Harlow:And it's, it's very like when I'm doing it. So I'm when I'm
Kate Harlow:doing a podcast, I'm expanded to a certain degree. When do a
Kate Harlow:podcast with another person, I'm even more expanded because I'm,
Kate Harlow:like, having a connection when I'm when I'm on stage teaching,
Kate Harlow:like at a live event, I'm even more expanded or don't have to
Kate Harlow:be on stage. It maybe it's just an intimate setting, like the
Kate Harlow:immersion, but I would say that's when I'm the most
Kate Harlow:expanded, because I'm in person and, you know, getting to go
Kate Harlow:deep with women and do what I love in such a playful, fun way,
Kate Harlow:like that is where the greatest magic occurs for me, in my
Kate Harlow:purpose. But all of them, I feel expanded by all of them, but
Kate Harlow:it's not in a fantasy way. I don't jump out of bed like I
Kate Harlow:can't wait to do what I'm gonna do today. It's more just like
Kate Harlow:very say I feel satiated, is the word. There's a contentment,
Kate Harlow:there's a there's a grounded satiation, like I my cup is
Kate Harlow:full, and I feel so grateful for that. So you know, and look
Kate Harlow:where my purpose led me. I had no idea creating all these
Kate Harlow:online things during covid Were going to support me to be able
Kate Harlow:to have a business that I could live from anywhere in the world.
Kate Harlow:I live in Greece. I live in Kenya. Like, how amazing is that
Kate Harlow:that my like because I followed the divine guidance of covid and
Kate Harlow:not being able to do live talks and having to move more online.
Kate Harlow:Because I moved more online, that's when I created the
Kate Harlow:reclamation and the expanded love masterclass, that the
Kate Harlow:podcast was birthed right before covid. So all of these online
Kate Harlow:things then set me up for the next step. So it's all divine,
Kate Harlow:even me being a business coach before, people kept saying to me
Kate Harlow:at the time, Kate, you are so gifted, you need to have your
Kate Harlow:own thing. And I was like, my own thing. What's my own thing?
Kate Harlow:I have nothing to offer. Like, I'm a business coach. And I was
Kate Harlow:teaching their methodologies, which were amazing, and I was so
Kate Harlow:good at teaching their methodologies when I became
Kate Harlow:their head trainer. But I didn't think I had my own thing from my
Kate Harlow:mind, right? Fear based mind. I thought. No, I'm just going to
Kate Harlow:do this for other people. Why would I want the stress of
Kate Harlow:having my own thing? But life led me one moment at a time. I
Kate Harlow:was burnt out. I had to quit working for that company because
Kate Harlow:I was so exhausted I couldn't do it anymore. I was traveling too
Kate Harlow:much and working wild hours, and was just like way too much for a
Kate Harlow:projector. So I ended my relationship, or my business
Kate Harlow:relationship with them, and I shifted gears, and I took a
Kate Harlow:break, and then a friend of mine was like, hey, like, when are
Kate Harlow:you going to start your own thing? And I'm like, What's my
Kate Harlow:own thing? I don't know what it is. And she said, What do you
Kate Harlow:care about? And then I just went on a rant, and she's like,
Kate Harlow:great, do a video. And I got online, and I just spontaneously
Kate Harlow:did a video on Facebook. And this is before Facebook Live
Kate Harlow:even existed. It's so wild. I feel like a dinosaur. I've been
Kate Harlow:doing this a long time, but, but Facebook Live didn't even exist.
Kate Harlow:I just recorded a video on my phone and uploaded it to YouTube
Kate Harlow:and uploaded it to Facebook, live or to not live to Facebook,
Kate Harlow:and it got massive responses. And then I did it. I did a pilot
Kate Harlow:program, and I invited people on Facebook, and I said I was
Kate Harlow:looking for five women and 14 signed up. And it was because I
Kate Harlow:was in alignment. When we're in alignment and doing something
Kate Harlow:for our own pleasure and our own joy and our own passion, we
Kate Harlow:become magnetic. Right? I never had to work hard to fill events
Kate Harlow:or to get clients. I just had to show up. I used to do live talks
Kate Harlow:around Vancouver before covid, or I did them in Toronto. I did
Kate Harlow:them. I did one in Washington, DC. I did one Sydney, Australia.
Kate Harlow:I'd travel around do these live talks or and if I was going
Kate Harlow:farther, I would do a weekend. And I loved them. I love live
Kate Harlow:talks and empowering women around fantasy love. It was
Kate Harlow:really the message of the podcast and in a live format,
Kate Harlow:and that was so fun for me, so satiating for me, so because I
Kate Harlow:was so expanded in that and in my own joy and in my own humor
Kate Harlow:and excitement, I would naturally magnetize the women
Kate Harlow:who are meant to work with me and meant to come to the
Kate Harlow:immersion, and meant to go deeper, right? So it's it's not
Kate Harlow:the thing itself. It's the magnetism, like if your path, if
Kate Harlow:you are meant to do something similar to what I do, when
Kate Harlow:you're doing it, and when you're so rooted in yourself, and
Kate Harlow:you're doing it because you love it, like I chose a podcast
Kate Harlow:because I love to talk and also because the universe guided me,
Kate Harlow:right? I think I've shared this story several times before, but
Kate Harlow:I was doing a talk. It was my last talk ever. Was in Toronto,
Kate Harlow:2019 right before covid happened, and I had a bunch of
Kate Harlow:women come to the back of the room at the end, and they were
Kate Harlow:like, Kate Harlow, we need you to do a podcast. And I was like,
Kate Harlow:what? Okay, what's a podcast? Like? I'd heard it before.
Kate Harlow:Chris, my soul healer, who I had on recently, was the first
Kate Harlow:person to plant that seed. Maybe Jeff, my ex boyfriend, was the
Kate Harlow:first, first person, my former partner, and then that. But I
Kate Harlow:couldn't hear it. I wasn't ready at the time with them. But then
Kate Harlow:these women said that to me, and they were like, this information
Kate Harlow:is so important, and women need to hear it all over the world,
Kate Harlow:and we need to hear it. To hear it over and over again. So
Kate Harlow:please do a podcast and that, for some reason, it's stuck.
Kate Harlow:Next thing you know, I called Catherine, and I was like, we we
Kate Harlow:booked a zoom. We didn't really know each other. We'd, we'd
Kate Harlow:collaborated a couple times on little things because we'd seen
Kate Harlow:each other's work. We met for 10 minutes at a rooftop party.
Kate Harlow:Catherine, if you don't know, she's my old podcast partner, if
Kate Harlow:you go back,
Kate Harlow:if you if you're new to the new truth, but that's how I met
Kate Harlow:Katherine and at a rooftop party. And, like, we really
Kate Harlow:didn't know each other, but I intuitively, in one conversation
Kate Harlow:with Jeff, I was like, I'm meant to do a podcast. And he said,
Kate Harlow:Well, I've been telling you that for a long time. Why don't you
Kate Harlow:start? And I was like, Well, I don't want to do it alone. And
Kate Harlow:he's like, great. Who would you do it with? And Catherine
Kate Harlow:Danieli was the first person that popped to mind, so I
Kate Harlow:reached out to her. She cried on the spot when I asked her to do
Kate Harlow:a podcast with me, and that's how the new truth was born. So
Kate Harlow:you see how the universe sends angels to ask to guide us,
Kate Harlow:right? We get told, I've had so many women say this, you need a
Kate Harlow:book. You need a book. I just want a manual. I want something
Kate Harlow:I can read over and over again. And so that's what led me to
Kate Harlow:doing the book now. And you know, even Elizabeth invited me
Kate Harlow:to come do the artist in residence. She's the owner of
Kate Harlow:Ola pangi farm, where I am right now doing the artist in
Kate Harlow:residence program. So life is guiding you, but if you're
Kate Harlow:living a lie, and if you're in your saboteur all the time, and
Kate Harlow:you're disconnected from the heroine inside, from the
Kate Harlow:sovereign woman, you're disconnected from your divinity
Kate Harlow:and the divine matrix that is always guiding us to where we're
Kate Harlow:meant to go, you will miss all of the nudges, like I my loves.
Kate Harlow:I honestly, I could. I don't even know how long I've been
Kate Harlow:talking right now, but I could. I could do 10 I could share 10
Kate Harlow:million stories of my purpose unfolding. There's so many tiny
Kate Harlow:moments from my journey that were divinely guided, and my
Kate Harlow:only job was to keep feeding my heart, feeding my soul, caring
Kate Harlow:for. Myself getting into energetic alignment with who I
Kate Harlow:am, and listening to the invitations, listening to the
Kate Harlow:responses from the universe. When the universe sends the
Kate Harlow:nudge. Do I listen? Do I say yes? If something is a yes, and
Kate Harlow:that is your practice. So number one is discover your magic.
Kate Harlow:You've got to be on the journey of your heroine if you in order
Kate Harlow:to discover your magic. So, and I don't just mean with me the
Kate Harlow:hair becoming the heroine of your life, becoming the
Kate Harlow:sovereign woman. So you have to be on a devoted journey in order
Kate Harlow:to even discover your magic. And then life will share your magic
Kate Harlow:with you. We are all magical, and then we forget. It's like
Kate Harlow:everyone has amnesia. And we think we are, oh, I'm a
Kate Harlow:perfectionist. Oh, I'm a, you know, I'm a workaholic. It's
Kate Harlow:like, you are none of those things you I'm a people pleaser.
Kate Harlow:It's like, No, those are your patterns. That's how you learn
Kate Harlow:to be to survive your life. You are not that. You are not that
Kate Harlow:there's something so magical in your soul you just haven't
Kate Harlow:uncovered it yet. So that's number one. Number two is follow
Kate Harlow:the inner nudges, which I've said, like, it's a combination
Kate Harlow:of life leading you like Kate, do a podcast. Kate, I wasn't
Kate Harlow:ready to follow the inner nudges the first couple times, but then
Kate Harlow:that third time it was like, All right, I get it. The memo is
Kate Harlow:clear doing a podcast, so follow the inner nudges and and have
Kate Harlow:the willingness in 2026 to say yes to those things that feel
Kate Harlow:scary, because they're supposed to. If they feel scary, that is
Kate Harlow:a good thing if you feel terrified. Ding, ding, ding,
Kate Harlow:that is exactly the direction you're meant to go in. It's so
Kate Harlow:funny. I've literally lived in this tent at Ola pangi for like,
Kate Harlow:I mean, if I add up, last year I lived in the tent for four
Kate Harlow:months, and this year, I'm, I mean, it's gonna be like five,
Kate Harlow:six months in a tent in Kenya. I mean, it's a glamping tent. It's
Kate Harlow:not fancy, but it's like king size bed. It has electricity
Kate Harlow:bedside tables. There's a, you know, shower and toilet on the
Kate Harlow:platform. But I was so freaking terrified, if you go back and
Kate Harlow:listen to my app, my episodes from last year, before I did the
Kate Harlow:artist program, I was so terrified of this experience,
Kate Harlow:like as if I was going to get eaten by a lion, which is so
Kate Harlow:funny. Now there's no lions walking around my tent. I hear
Kate Harlow:them in the night. It's just amazing. Like I could honestly
Kate Harlow:think live out my days in this tent. I love living in the tent.
Kate Harlow:I find I sleep way deeper, and I love waking up at five to the
Kate Harlow:birds, and then I meditate and I go for a walk, and it's just
Kate Harlow:like the most beautiful circadian rhythm reset being in
Kate Harlow:the tent here. But it's so funny to think how scared I was before
Kate Harlow:that I was only the and it's really always a young part of us
Kate Harlow:that's afraid and the saboteur that's feeding the stories to
Kate Harlow:the young girl, like, don't do this thing. It's scary, right?
Kate Harlow:The saboteur is like scaring that little girl inside. If you
Kate Harlow:ever feel scared, know that there is a young version of
Kate Harlow:yourself in that moment. Tune in. Feel your feet. Put your
Kate Harlow:hands on your heart. Sit a little bit taller, take a breath
Kate Harlow:and and speak from your heroine to the little girl. You are
Kate Harlow:safe. I've got you. You don't have to be in charge of this. I
Kate Harlow:have got you. I will protect you. I've got you, and that's
Kate Harlow:part of the trusting life, right? But, but building that
Kate Harlow:relationship with the little girl, rather than letting the
Kate Harlow:little girl in your saboteur make your decisions, you are not
Kate Harlow:going to have an expanded life if your saboteur or an aligned
Kate Harlow:life that is meant for you, if your saboteur and the little
Kate Harlow:girl are making your decisions rooted in fear, so what have you
Kate Harlow:been afraid? What decision Have you been afraid to make that
Kate Harlow:you've been staying stuck in forever like call on that
Kate Harlow:heroine to mentor and guide that little girl and let her know
Kate Harlow:that she is safe and there is a sovereign woman inside who's
Kate Harlow:going to take charge now and let that part make the decision.
Kate Harlow:That's the part that even though the fear is there, she feels it,
Kate Harlow:she breathes into it, she maybe creates with it, she writes
Kate Harlow:about it, she makes art with it, and then she walks through the
Kate Harlow:door anyways, because that door is the door to your purpose, and
Kate Harlow:your purpose is not an arrival point. Like, I've said, mine has
Kate Harlow:evolved so much since I started. Like, I can't even believe how
Kate Harlow:much mine has evolved since I started, and it's going to
Kate Harlow:continue to evolve. I have no idea what the future holds. And
Kate Harlow:every time my mind gets attached to it being a certain way, or me
Kate Harlow:doing something particular in my purpose. I give it to the
Kate Harlow:universe and the angels, and I'm like, I know that there's a
Kate Harlow:divine plan where this is meant to go. And my mind might think
Kate Harlow:it knows the best way, but actually I know it doesn't, so I
Kate Harlow:surrender this to you. Keep showing me the way. Keep guiding
Kate Harlow:me. So when you get in fear, talk to the universe, talk to
Kate Harlow:your angels. Keep guiding me. This is the sage aspect of the
Kate Harlow:heroine. So in the reclamation, we unlock all of the aspects of
Kate Harlow:the heroine that help you feel fully rooted in yourself. And
Kate Harlow:the sage is about living from your inner compass, not anyone
Kate Harlow:else's, but yours, listening to the nudges for. Following your
Kate Harlow:heart expansions, saying yes to your yeses and no to your nose
Kate Harlow:no matter what. And the sage is also being interconnected to
Kate Harlow:that divine matrix, to the divine intelligence of this
Kate Harlow:planet that all of the animals and all of the other ecosystems
Kate Harlow:are so effortlessly connected to, we just forgot, because
Kate Harlow:we're the only species on planet Earth with an ego, right? Nobody
Kate Harlow:else has a saboteur. So everyone they're all connected to the
Kate Harlow:Divine interconnectedness. And here we are suffering and
Kate Harlow:struggling and arguing with reality and trying to control
Kate Harlow:our futures and trying to create a life that somebody else told
Kate Harlow:us we were supposed to have, rather than connect with the
Kate Harlow:magic of the life that you are meant to have that is only
Kate Harlow:unique to your soul. My path is so unique, and, you know, it's
Kate Harlow:interesting too. What I do for a living, like so many people, are
Kate Harlow:coaches and teachers and and mentors and have podcasts, but I
Kate Harlow:didn't do this because I was like, oh, everyone else's
Kate Harlow:account, I want to be a coach. Like, look, everyone on
Kate Harlow:Instagram is a coach. Maybe I should be a coach. Like, wasn't
Kate Harlow:my mind choosing this? I didn't even know what freaking coaching
Kate Harlow:was. It wasn't even a thing, right? Wasn't my mind choosing
Kate Harlow:the podcast again. I didn't know what it was. Life led me here,
Kate Harlow:and that's why it's been magnetic. That's why I've had
Kate Harlow:relative success and ease in my from the very beginning of my
Kate Harlow:work in the world, because it was divinely LED. It wasn't my
Kate Harlow:ego being like, oh, I need to be known. I gotta go, you know, get
Kate Harlow:a bunch of followers. I don't care about followers. I don't
Kate Harlow:care about Instagram. I care about you. I care about
Kate Harlow:awakening women to the magic of who they are. So when you're
Kate Harlow:leading from that place, when you're choosing what your
Kate Harlow:purpose, like I have right now, actually, it's extraordinary. So
Kate Harlow:many of the women I'm working with have a deep, deep
Kate Harlow:connection and love for animals. And I keep saying like, I feel
Kate Harlow:like there's going to be a heroin business coming out of
Kate Harlow:this immersion, because the next immersion in April 2026, is sold
Kate Harlow:out. If you want to get on the waiting list for next year, I
Kate Harlow:highly encourage it. But so many of them are deeply in love with
Kate Harlow:animals, and I believe have a deeper purpose connected to
Kate Harlow:animals in some way, some sacred you know, animal, animal Animal
Kate Harlow:Rescue, animal love place. It's so interesting. So and it
Kate Harlow:they're all being brought together at the immersion,
Kate Harlow:right? They haven't even been on the journey yet, but it's like,
Kate Harlow:so beautiful to see. That's what happens. So it's, it's your
Kate Harlow:like, your purpose is where your heart intersects with what the
Kate Harlow:universe is calling you to be, and it is calling you, and if
Kate Harlow:you can't hear or feel or experience, don't experience the
Kate Harlow:call. It's because you're far away from yourself. You're in
Kate Harlow:your mind, you're in your idea of who you think you are, and
Kate Harlow:you're disconnected from who you really are, because your heart
Kate Harlow:intersects with the the divine guidance and with the expression
Kate Harlow:of the magic of you, that's your purpose. Your purpose is like
Kate Harlow:breathing. Like this, for me, is like breathing. Now, was it
Kate Harlow:always like breathing?
Kate Harlow:No, I developed a huge fear of public speaking. So again,
Kate Harlow:before, like before, I met my mentor, Callen. I was terrified
Kate Harlow:of being on stage. In fact, when I met her, she was like, You are
Kate Harlow:meant to be on stage. I see it so clearly. And she she's a soul
Kate Harlow:seer. And I was like, No way. I hate public speaking, even in
Kate Harlow:front of five people. Like, no, that's like death to me. And she
Kate Harlow:was like, No, you're meant to be on stage. I want you to do my
Kate Harlow:intro tonight. We would do these live talks, which is where I
Kate Harlow:learned to do live talks, and she asked me to do her intro,
Kate Harlow:and I did it maybe four times, and I was so bad, I can't even
Kate Harlow:tell you, I couldn't even make eye contact with the audience.
Kate Harlow:It was like a wall went up, and I just, like, recited the thing
Kate Harlow:the paper in my head of what I was supposed to say about her.
Kate Harlow:And I like, didn't breathe the whole time, like it was
Kate Harlow:horrible, and I would be sick before and after. I would
Kate Harlow:literally be running to the bathroom after so sick, like, Oh
Kate Harlow:my God. And then I would be in a shame spiral after doing it. And
Kate Harlow:so that I'm sharing this story, because if your mind is like,
Kate Harlow:Well, I'm not meant to do that thing because I'm terrified of
Kate Harlow:it, it's like, probably that's exactly what you're meant to do.
Kate Harlow:I don't meant to do. I don't think we have that level of
Kate Harlow:fear. So if, like yours is public speaking, dig into it,
Kate Harlow:because I don't think that I would have had that level of
Kate Harlow:fear if it wasn't exactly where I was meant to go. The stronger
Kate Harlow:the fear, in fact, the more usually it's the more that's
Kate Harlow:your path, and your saboteur feels like it's going to die.
Kate Harlow:Because for me, I was shut down from being in the spotlight,
Kate Harlow:from taking up too much attention. I was I was because I
Kate Harlow:naturally have a Leo rising. So I'm naturally very bubbly and
Kate Harlow:very charismatic, and I would, you know, love to talk. I have a
Kate Harlow:defined throat in human design, so that was really easy for me
Kate Harlow:to express. And yet I was shut down from from it so many times
Kate Harlow:when I was young. So I developed a fear of public speaking and of
Kate Harlow:attention. Now it fear led my life. I we would not be here,
Kate Harlow:right? None of this work would have been created because I
Kate Harlow:would be too afraid, because I wouldn't have become the head
Kate Harlow:trainer, like none of this would be here. So that's the thing.
Kate Harlow:It's like, Don't the fear is the indicator. The fear isn't the
Kate Harlow:barrier. The fear isn't the thing that is like, you're not
Kate Harlow:supposed to go in that direction because you're afraid, if you're
Kate Harlow:afraid to have your own business. Oh, my God, if I can
Kate Harlow:have my own business, you can say that to my brother. I'm
Kate Harlow:like, seriously. I'm like, not good at detail, not good at that
Kate Harlow:kind of stuff, business stuff. So I thought like, there was no
Kate Harlow:way in hell I could have a business. But again, saga, saga
Kate Harlow:po le poli, one day at a time, one moment at a time, it
Kate Harlow:unfolds. Purpose doesn't happen overnight. It's a lifelong
Kate Harlow:unfolding, and mine's still unfolding, because it's a life
Kate Harlow:long unfolding. So that fear of public speaking, okay, here's
Kate Harlow:another I told you I have endless stories, so I told my
Kate Harlow:mentor, like, No, do not put me on stage again. I hate it. I
Kate Harlow:meant to be at the back of the room. I'm the support person.
Kate Harlow:She was like, Fine, okay, and she let me have it. About a
Kate Harlow:month later, I was at a meetup group, and I had a woman
Kate Harlow:approach me who had never met in my life. She comes up to me and
Kate Harlow:she says, I've been guided to work with you, and I want to
Kate Harlow:gift you with three sessions of EFT, Emotional Freedom
Kate Harlow:Technique, which is a thing that helps the subconscious heal
Kate Harlow:patterns and beliefs that are not serving us anymore. And I
Kate Harlow:said, Well, what do you do? And she said, I do EFT, and I
Kate Harlow:specifically work with people who have a fear of public
Kate Harlow:speaking. And I'm, I've been called by My angels and your
Kate Harlow:angels that I meant to help you. And I was like, What the How
Kate Harlow:does she know? Like, oh, my God, this is crazy. So I went home,
Kate Harlow:and of course, I signed up for those three sessions, and then
Kate Harlow:we worked together beyond that, but she helped me heal the fear
Kate Harlow:of public speaking. And then all of a sudden, Callen, like, think
Kate Harlow:she got sick or something. She couldn't come to event. There
Kate Harlow:was, like, all these, the occurrences that happened that
Kate Harlow:had me have to rise. There was no other option. I had to. I
Kate Harlow:remember I had to teach a Pilates class. Like, I'm not a
Kate Harlow:Pilates teacher, but one of our retreats, the Pilates teacher
Kate Harlow:didn't show up. And I, at the time, was doing a lot of
Kate Harlow:Pilates. I still am, and so she asked me to teach a Pilates
Kate Harlow:class. So I did, and I wasn't afraid at all. And then she
Kate Harlow:asked me to do this thing, and then to do that thing, and I
Kate Harlow:just kept getting all these invitations again, once I had
Kate Harlow:healed that fear and I started to step into my purpose, right?
Kate Harlow:And it's not one thing. It's not public speaking, it's not a
Kate Harlow:podcast, it's not a it's not a thing like my purpose is to
Kate Harlow:continue to peel off those fear based masks and those layers of
Kate Harlow:who I'm not and to keep being who I am in the world, and to
Kate Harlow:keep magnetizing women to me who I can help remind them of who
Kate Harlow:they are. Your purpose is. So it's not going to look the same
Kate Harlow:as mine, by any means. But what sparks your heart the more you
Kate Harlow:live in alignment with who you really are, the more the
Kate Harlow:universe, divine matrix, life, can lead you where you're meant
Kate Harlow:to go. So discover your magic. Number one, number two, follow
Kate Harlow:your inner nudges. Say yes, even when it's freaking scary, know
Kate Harlow:that that's exactly the direction you need to go in. And
Kate Harlow:number three is trust your guidance. Trust that you are
Kate Harlow:being guided. If you do not believe in in the divine
Kate Harlow:orchestration of this planet. If you don't believe in the
Kate Harlow:universe, in gut, you can call it whatever you want. Source
Kate Harlow:Energy, God, the quantum field, whatever. Go study Joe Dispenza
Kate Harlow:and Dr Bruce Lipton. If you're scientific and you don't believe
Kate Harlow:in spirituality, because you were traumatized by a religion
Kate Harlow:as a child that was forced down your throat and you, or you're
Kate Harlow:just you, or you grew up in an atheist home, and you just don't
Kate Harlow:believe in anything. You cannot live a life of purpose if you
Kate Harlow:don't believe. But once you believe, and once you get into
Kate Harlow:alignment, you can't not believe. I mean, we're at the
Kate Harlow:immersion, and literally, magic is happening every five seconds.
Kate Harlow:And every single five seconds, everyone's like, I can't believe
Kate Harlow:that just happened. I can't believe that, like, it's so
Kate Harlow:magical. That is my life all the time, like this synchronicity,
Kate Harlow:that synchronicity, this, that is what the world is. We've just
Kate Harlow:been brainwashed to believe it's something else. And the more you
Kate Harlow:watch the news and the media and all the horrible things that
Kate Harlow:happen in the world, the more you watch and consume and spend
Kate Harlow:all your time watching scary movies and watching like
Kate Harlow:programming your mind to believe that the world is a horrible
Kate Harlow:place and that we are not divine, like we just forget, and
Kate Harlow:we're being programmed every single day to forget and to
Kate Harlow:forget and to forget. Why? Because then we're in fear, and
Kate Harlow:then we're easily controllable, but you're. Path that is meant
Kate Harlow:for you. You are not meant to live here and just work a job
Kate Harlow:you hate. That's why I believe we all have a purpose, you know,
Kate Harlow:and it might not be your own business. It might be working
Kate Harlow:for someone else, or for an organization that's deeply
Kate Harlow:meaningful to you or collaborating with friends. It
Kate Harlow:could, it could be. It could look many different ways. But I
Kate Harlow:do believe that every single one of us has something that will
Kate Harlow:light up our soul and that we're not meant to just do a job, we
Kate Harlow:hate to pay bills, to survive, and then we die like what that's
Kate Harlow:not why we're here. There's so much available and possible for
Kate Harlow:you, and every single one of us has magic inside, if you, if you
Kate Harlow:have not touched the magic inside, join me in the
Kate Harlow:reclamation. Join another program this year. Invest in
Kate Harlow:yourself. Start investing in having someone see your magic
Kate Harlow:and reflect your magic if you don't know your magic, and the
Kate Harlow:more you live from your aligned magic, the easier it is to
Kate Harlow:believe how supported you are. And we remember and forget,
Kate Harlow:right? I still say, oh my god, that's so crazy. I can't believe
Kate Harlow:that synchronicity just happened. And it's like, what's
Kate Harlow:not crazy at all. Synchronicities happen
Kate Harlow:constantly. But a part of me is still in awe and still shocked
Kate Harlow:by the synchronicities, even though they're happening
Kate Harlow:constantly. So there is a magical, divine matrix that we
Kate Harlow:all can plug into, that will lead you to the purpose that's
Kate Harlow:meaningful to you a life. Imagine that's why I feel so
Kate Harlow:satiated, because everything I do is so meaningful to me, and
Kate Harlow:it's so aligned with who I am. So learn about your astrology,
Kate Harlow:learn about your your human design, even if at the time you
Kate Harlow:don't believe what they say, like, when that woman told me I
Kate Harlow:was going to have a business one day, I didn't believe her. I was
Kate Harlow:like, yeah, right, clearly she doesn't know me. Like, have my
Kate Harlow:own business, no way. Like, I just absolutely my mind was
Kate Harlow:like, that's not remotely a possibility, but my soul knew,
Kate Harlow:and so she got to plug that for my subconscious mind. So even if
Kate Harlow:you don't believe what the astrologers or human design
Kate Harlow:practitioners say at the time, just know they're planting seeds
Kate Harlow:for the future, and it's all written in there. And I mean,
Kate Harlow:your purpose is in there. You have, like, a whole go down the
Kate Harlow:rabbit hole, and your purpose is in there. But the last thing in
Kate Harlow:the world you want to do is try and control it, right? You don't
Kate Harlow:want to. So if had I had that reading and then been like,
Kate Harlow:Okay, I got to work for myself now. I got to start my own
Kate Harlow:business, that would be my mind trying to control this magical
Kate Harlow:thing, versus her just planting a seed and me being like, maybe,
Kate Harlow:oh yeah, another moment of my purpose. I feel like I shared
Kate Harlow:this story,
Kate Harlow:at least in the last year about I was in went to a retreat in
Kate Harlow:the south of France, and it was a little journey into Mary
Kate Harlow:magdalene's world. In the south of France, they revere Mary
Kate Harlow:Magdalene, and she was a teacher of love. And it's these
Kate Harlow:beautiful, beautiful teachings and sacred, sacred places that
Kate Harlow:apparently Mary Magdalene was. And so I got divinely led there.
Kate Harlow:I mean, how I signed up for that? It was like two weeks
Kate Harlow:before it started, and I was doing a business sales call for
Kate Harlow:a woman who was applying for a program with my mentor, and I
Kate Harlow:was interviewing her to see if she was a fit for his program.
Kate Harlow:And on that call, she told me about her business model and
Kate Harlow:told me about this retreat in the south of France. And this is
Kate Harlow:a woman I knew already, I already had a relationship with,
Kate Harlow:because she'd been in our other business programs. And I was
Kate Harlow:like, Oh, my God, can I come on on the call when she was telling
Kate Harlow:me about this retreat in the south of France, it was in Paris
Kate Harlow:and the south of France. And she was like, Yeah, of course. And I
Kate Harlow:went on this retreat. Like the perfect. I didn't have the
Kate Harlow:money, but like, all my commissions from this thing I
Kate Harlow:had just done showed up the exact literally, like, right? As
Kate Harlow:I said, Yes, then I found out how much I was making in
Kate Harlow:commissions for selling this really high ticket business
Kate Harlow:course for my mentor. And that paid for my trip. The entire
Kate Harlow:thing. It was so perfect. It was so divine. And I go on this
Kate Harlow:journey I know nothing about Mary Magdalene, like I grew up
Kate Harlow:in a Christian united, so liberal Christian, but Christian
Kate Harlow:home. And I only heard that Mary Magdalene was a prostitute. I
Kate Harlow:didn't know the true story of her. And so I wasn't even going
Kate Harlow:for that reason. It was just a yes in my body. So I went on
Kate Harlow:this journey, and it I tell you this, I mean, I'm still very
Kate Harlow:connected to the five women who are on this trip. There was a
Kate Harlow:woman from every decade, 40s, third, no 30s. I was in my 30s,
Kate Harlow:30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and 70s, or five of us. It was the perfect
Kate Harlow:group. We're still really deeply connected. And it was like
Kate Harlow:almost at the end of the trip, we went to these Mary Magdalene
Kate Harlow:caves, and we couldn't find them at first. And the very first
Kate Harlow:trail we walked down, I saw these heart rocks. And I thought
Kate Harlow:to myself, like, this has got to be the Mary Magdalene caves.
Kate Harlow:There's heart rocks everywhere. And it's like they were not
Kate Harlow:placed there. They were nature, just nature, heart rocks. But I
Kate Harlow:kept seeing rocks in the shapes of heart hearts. And then we
Kate Harlow:spent the whole day looking for these caves. We went down this
Kate Harlow:trail and that trail, and it was so hot out. I was like. 38
Kate Harlow:degrees or something Celsius. It was very, very hot. And we
Kate Harlow:finally, at the end of the day, the woman who was the oldest,
Kate Harlow:said, You know, I feel like we should go back to the first one.
Kate Harlow:I feel like that was the first trail. And I didn't have the
Kate Harlow:courage at the time to speak up. I was 33 and I agreed with her.
Kate Harlow:I was like, Yeah, I think so too. I kept seeing heart rocks
Kate Harlow:on that trail. Sure enough, we go down that trail, and we go a
Kate Harlow:little bit further than we did the time before, and we found
Kate Harlow:the caves, and they were so beautiful. They were like
Kate Harlow:limestone, green and pink, and all nature just so beautiful.
Kate Harlow:And we were meditating inside of the Mary Magdalene cave, and I
Kate Harlow:was deep in meditation, and all of a sudden my arms went up like
Kate Harlow:wings, and I couldn't put them down. I literally, my arms were
Kate Harlow:out. You can't see me right now, but my arms are out, as I'm
Kate Harlow:telling this. I couldn't put them down. It was like someone
Kate Harlow:put fish hooks in my wrists, and they were they were holding them
Kate Harlow:up. And I started laughing. And I was just like, what the can't
Kate Harlow:put my arms down. And there's a woman in the group who is a is a
Kate Harlow:really extraordinary healer. Actually, I'll have her on the
Kate Harlow:podcast at some point. She's amazing. And she was doing
Kate Harlow:healing on all of us while we were meditating inside of these
Kate Harlow:caves, and she saw me and knew what was happening, and she had
Kate Harlow:this big smile on her face. And I closed my eyes again, and I
Kate Harlow:was like, what is happening? And then I heard a voice that said,
Kate Harlow:it's time to spread your wings. It was actually a man's voice.
Kate Harlow:So in my mind, I was like, Okay, maybe it's Jesus, but he said,
Kate Harlow:It's time to spread your wings. You are. You are a teacher of
Kate Harlow:love. And at the time, I was a business coach, and I was like,
Kate Harlow:a teacher of love. Like, what do I know about love? I don't know
Kate Harlow:anything about love. What? And then again, like, it was a
Kate Harlow:beautiful, magical moment, and I let it go. If I had gone home
Kate Harlow:and started studying love and relationships, that would be my
Kate Harlow:saboteur. So you see these nudges come, and we don't need
Kate Harlow:to react instantly to them, that they're seeds that are planted,
Kate Harlow:and you will know the moment they're meant to unfold. So that
Kate Harlow:happened when I was 33 so 43 I'm 44 business, nine years. So two
Kate Harlow:years before I started my business,
Kate Harlow:and I forgot that that happened. I only remembered that happened
Kate Harlow:later. I only remembered that that happened way later on my
Kate Harlow:journey where I was like, Oh, my God, I am a teacher of love. But
Kate Harlow:at the time, it made no sense. I was a business coach, and I had
Kate Harlow:I, but I am love, right? In my mind, it was like, What do I
Kate Harlow:know about relationships? Like, I'm not an expert. Who am I? You
Kate Harlow:know, all my small self responded to that, but I was
Kate Harlow:just like, okay, that just went in and out like it, but, but
Kate Harlow:again, planted seeds in the garden, right? The garden
Kate Harlow:doesn't bloom right away. You plant seeds, and you take care
Kate Harlow:of the soil, and you nurture the soil and tend to it, make sure
Kate Harlow:it has the right conditions. And then one day, what happens? One
Kate Harlow:day you look outside and you're like, holy shit, the garden's
Kate Harlow:bloomed. That's where I am. Now, my garden is bloomed, and it's
Kate Harlow:going to keep blooming even more and more and more. But that
Kate Harlow:moment, I didn't know what that meant, but that was the divine
Kate Harlow:guiding me. So, I mean, I didn't used to believe in any of this.
Kate Harlow:So if you are like, well, I don't believe it's like, you
Kate Harlow:just have to get into alignment. I promise you, my the women I
Kate Harlow:work with on this journey, most women I work with on this
Kate Harlow:journey are super logical, very in their heads, very
Kate Harlow:disconnected from their divinity and from their sensuality and
Kate Harlow:from their power and from all the all the things inside and
Kate Harlow:just living from logic and practicality. And most of them
Kate Harlow:are numb when they meet me or like repressed or shut down and
Kate Harlow:hurting, hurting deeply underneath that those masks, and
Kate Harlow:they come to me because their soul feels something, even in
Kate Harlow:listening to this podcast, their soul feels a resonance. Their
Kate Harlow:heart feels something and is like there is something here for
Kate Harlow:me. I don't know what it is. I mean, if that's you, get on the
Kate Harlow:phone with me and let's explore. Maybe it's the reclamation,
Kate Harlow:maybe it's going deeper, or maybe it's even just connecting.
Kate Harlow:And I have a resource that I can provide you with, but basically,
Kate Harlow:life is always leading you, and if you don't tend to your heart,
Kate Harlow:if you don't care for yourself, if you don't make time and space
Kate Harlow:for yourself, if you keep lying to yourself and contorting
Kate Harlow:yourself and hurting yourself and living in a fantasy world
Kate Harlow:rather than really connecting with your own heart and your own
Kate Harlow:being and your own soul, you will miss the nudges right. The
Kate Harlow:nudges will come. I know so many people who've had nudges and
Kate Harlow:done nothing with them, and I've done something over and over and
Kate Harlow:over and over again, and I meet people that I knew 15 years ago,
Kate Harlow:and they're like, Wow, it's amazing how you what you've
Kate Harlow:done, and how much you kept going. But it's only because I
Kate Harlow:can't not now. Like, the more, the more you live from the
Kate Harlow:heroine, the more harder it becomes to not right? It's like,
Kate Harlow:that's the. Part of me that I'm in devotion to now that's a part
Kate Harlow:of me that's leading my life and every choice I make, and there
Kate Harlow:is a little girl inside of me still, and I do still get
Kate Harlow:afraid, and my saboteur does still tell me stories like
Kate Harlow:you're not a writer. Why are you writing a book or whatever? But
Kate Harlow:it's like she's not in charge. Too bad. AC ain't in charge no
Kate Harlow:more. It's my favorite line from home alone. Actually, I have
Kate Harlow:many lines. I watched home alone the other night, and realized I
Kate Harlow:know almost every word to that whole movie. I had two brothers
Kate Harlow:growing up, so we watched it a lot. Anyways, your saboteur is
Kate Harlow:not in charge anymore. If you don't know home alone, you
Kate Harlow:didn't get the reference, but if you know it really well, you
Kate Harlow:probably got it. But your saboteur is not in charge. No
Kate Harlow:more. Too bad. Too bad. Regina ain't in charge. No more. She is
Kate Harlow:not in charge of my life, and that's why my life is so full,
Kate Harlow:and my heart is so full and my work is so meaningful to me, and
Kate Harlow:I love what I do, and I love who I work with. And, you know,
Kate Harlow:it's, it's pretty profound living a life of purpose. I
Kate Harlow:think purpose is the antidote. And when women are on purpose,
Kate Harlow:they stop being in fantasy about love. We stop being so addicted
Kate Harlow:to getting a hit from some guy or some person, some woman, that
Kate Harlow:you, that you're that you're obsessed with those obsessions
Kate Harlow:only come when we're disconnected from ourselves, but
Kate Harlow:when you're on purpose, a life of purpose is so full and again,
Kate Harlow:it's it's not one thing, and it's only going to be ever
Kate Harlow:unfolding and ever unfolding, but it starts with you. Discover
Kate Harlow:your magic, follow your inner nudges, and trust the divine
Kate Harlow:guidance that is always leading you. So again, if this is
Kate Harlow:foreign to you and you're like, What the heck, Kate, I don't
Kate Harlow:know how join me in the reclamation. I would love to
Kate Harlow:meet you. I would love to go deeper with you. Again, I don't
Kate Harlow:usually the reclamation live doesn't happen anymore. It's now
Kate Harlow:a self study program that you can invest in on my website, but
Kate Harlow:we're doing it live this year, at the beginning of the year, to
Kate Harlow:get all the women who are coming to the immersion ready to go,
Kate Harlow:and all the women in the community love to do it over and
Kate Harlow:over again. So might happen again live next year, I don't
Kate Harlow:know, but this year, it's live, and it's going to be amazing,
Kate Harlow:off the charts. So much purpose. This is so up for so many people
Kate Harlow:right now. We can no longer lie to ourselves. So join the
Kate Harlow:community, join the sisterhood, join the reclamation, and let's
Kate Harlow:go. Let's change your life. Let's create the most expansive
Kate Harlow:2026, you can imagine this is time. 2025 was all about
Kate Harlow:shedding old skin, shedding old layers, letting go. 2026 is
Kate Harlow:about new beginnings and creativity and expansion and
Kate Harlow:expression. This is your opportunity to do it
Kate Harlow:differently. So we'd love to see you there. Send me a message if
Kate Harlow:you have any questions. Share this episode with every woman
Kate Harlow:you need you know who is ready to unlock her purpose. And
Kate Harlow:again, I'll say, I know I shared so many stories today, but your
Kate Harlow:purpose isn't going to look like mine, or is it supposed to? Just
Kate Harlow:because you listen to the new truth you're not meant doesn't
Kate Harlow:mean you're meant to be a healer or a coach or anything. Even in
Kate Harlow:my industry, there's infinite possibilities to purpose. But if
Kate Harlow:you don't know your own soul, if you don't know your own magic,
Kate Harlow:if you don't know what lights you up, and you haven't
Kate Harlow:uncovered your gifts and the gift of who you are, you will
Kate Harlow:miss the guidance. You will miss the divine matrix that is
Kate Harlow:leading you to the purpose that is meant for you. But you get to
Kate Harlow:have a life you love, and that's what purpose has done for me, so
Kate Harlow:I wish that for you too, in 2026 creating a life that you love.
Kate Harlow:Would love to do it alongside you. Share this episode with
Kate Harlow:every woman you know who needs to be a little more on purpose
Kate Harlow:this year, I love you, and I'll see you next week. You.
